Women who are seeing the men in their lives lose their mojo (purpose, drive, and health) .
No. Help Your Man is a community. Therapy can be great, but it can also be expensive and inaccessible. Help Your Man is non-clinical support, encouragement, and accountability. It is also affordable and accessible at less than $1 per day after a 7-day Free Trial.


● Help Your Man is NOT about bashing men.
● Help Your Man is NOT about bashing women.
● Help Your Man is NOT about taking sides; it is about finding ways to come together.
Our mission is to unite women who want to stand beside the men in their lives with understanding, support, and encouragement to restore purpose and strengthen families.
Seeing and Hearing You: Validating your perspective and experience.
Identifying What You Want: Deciding what you actually want beyond the daily grind so you avoid feeling like roommates (or get out of the roommate zone if you are already there).
Doing Something About It: Supporting you to take action while still protecting your needs and energy, so he can find his purpose again.

Rod is the co-founder of Help Your Man and Founder of The International Academy of Values Inspired Coaching. Rod is a Certified Life & Leadership Coach and Licensed NLP Master Practitioner.
Rod Macdonald is a trusted authority on personal development with over 30 years of transformative experience. In addition to serving thousands of group and individual clients, he’s worked with national nonprofits and international organizations, creating, renovating, and delivering multi-million-dollar education programs.
As a speaker, coach, and author, Rod has inspired hundreds of thousands across the U.S., Australia, New Zealand, China, and Canada. He believes values are the key to unlocking success, guiding individuals and organizations to realize their full potential.
Beyond his professional life, Rod is a four-time Ironman Triathlon finisher, a cross-Canada cyclist, a former competitive rower, and a 200-hour RYT yogi. A devoted husband and father, he strives to balance personal fulfillment and professional excellence.
“I’ve been married and divorced and re-married, I have experienced soul-crushing loss and dealt with depression and health challenges. Help Your Man is a way for me to help other men, through the women that love them.”

Blake is the co-founder of Help Your Man and a Certified Life & Success Coach, dedicated to helping people believe in themselves and focus on the pursuit of their best life.
With over 35 years of experience guiding people toward greater confidence, clarity, and purpose, Blake brings a practical, results-driven approach to personal growth.
His work has spanned diverse environments, from mentoring students at the Royal Conservatory of Music to coaching people in the pursuit of their goals and dreams, giving him a unique ability to understand people, communication, and emotional dynamics at a deep level.
Having navigated major life transitions himself, Blake understands the power of honest communication and mutual support. He believes that when both partners feel heard, valued, and understood, transformation becomes possible.
“My former partner and I continue to be dear friends, because we chose to open up, be truly honest, and support one another. I think of Help Your Man as a road map to your authentic loving space, whatever that looks like, and I’m honoured to be one of your humble tour guides.”
Men excel at solving problems, but rarely ask for help with their own. You are the most influential person in his life, and you can help.
You can't turn back time, but you CAN create a new vision for who you want to be together. Make the next stage of your lives the best stage of your lives.
This community is unique because it is hosted by two men who want to help you "pull back the curtain" on why your man has changed and help you get back the man you love.
Land Acknowledgment:
The land upon which The International Academy of Values Inspired Coaching was conceived and now serves its clients from is the traditional territory of many nations including the Mississaugas of the Credit, the Anishnabeg, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples and is now home to many diverse First Nations, Inuit and Métis peoples.